Acknowledgements

I think we all long for someone to tell us that we’re doing a good job… a pat on the
back, an encouraging word, recognition for our efforts. And what we crave is
more than the simple “thank you” or “good job.” We want to hear specifics…
we desire to have our actions actually acknowledged… something heartfelt
and authentic, without any ulterior motives behind it. An acknowledgment
puts the spotlight on someone else’s talent, thoughtfulness, hard work, etc.
You will energize and inspire that individual to work harder and keep doing
what they do well.

But, the truth of the matter is, acknowledgments are a rarity, especially in
the workplace, which is unfortunate. Most people spend the majority of their
lives working… it takes up more time than anything else we do. Sadly, I
spend more time with the people I work with than I do with my own children.
Sleeping may come close for the ratio of time in a 24 hour day, but how many
of us actually get those blessed eight hours of sleep anyway. I know I
don’t. For something that we spend most of our time doing (our job), you
would think that the acknowledgments for a job-well-done would be plentiful.
But they, quite often, are not.

I’m sure you realize, as a member of society, that you can really make a
difference in the lives of others who work so hard to keep your
life running smoothly. Honestly, if you take a good look at things, would
your life be where it is today if you didn’t have a supportive loved one, the loyal pet, the efficient waiter or waitress, the attentive physician, the dedicated police officer or the humble pastor. If you’re not already doing so, you should take every opportunity to really acknowledge the hard work and dedication of your peers and those around you who are your true friends.
Is it difficult for you to do? It is for some people. A great way to start
is by acknowledging the efforts complete strangers. You don’t have to worry
about whether strangers are second guessing your motivation, and you
honestly don’t have to be concerned about whether or not your words made an
impact on them. You simply tell the bank teller that she did a great job by
helping you, and hope to brighten her day, or at least make her smile.
Acknowledge the wonderful meal your wife cooked for dinner, or that your husband took the time to wash the car. Acknowledge your children for sharing their toys or saying something nice to each other. And, finally, acknowledge that person in your life who always seems to bring a smile to your face. Just a thought.